It’s FinTip Tuesday!
Ever delayed opening a bill or avoided checking your bank account after a big weekend? You’re not alone—and you’re not bad with money. You’re human.
Many of us avoid money tasks to protect ourselves from stress, guilt, or shame. Ironically, though, this avoidance often leads to more stress later—when the late fees hit or the overdraft alert shows up.
💡 Why do we do this?
This is called avoidance coping, a common and normal response to financial anxiety. When we avoid looking at something that might make us feel stressed or guilty, we protect ourselves from those bad feelings, but it can lead to inaction and a “freeze” response.
But, here’s the good news: taking small, manageable steps can reduce overwhelm and help you feel back in control. Giving your brain a taste of feeling accomplished and capable can shrink those tasks that once felt so big.
Here are a few “low-stakes” ways to re-engage with your finances:
⏳ Set a 5-minute timer. Do one money-related task—like logging into your bank app or scanning your recent transactions. When the timer ends, you can stop. By the time you’ve accomplished something, you might find you’re ready to do a little more.
👀 Check just one account. Don’t feel like you have to face everything at once. Start with one checking account or credit card you use most often, just to get a snapshot. That small act of looking is a win.
✍️ Write down what you’re avoiding. Sometimes just naming the task “Look at credit card balance” or “Open electricity bill” helps it feel less scary and more doable, and something satisfying to cross off of a list!
🫶 Offer yourself compassion. Avoidance is common, and it does not mean you’re failing. It just means your brain is trying to protect you. You can say, “Thank you, brain,” but remember that you’re in charge, and every small decision you take builds confidence.
Remember: Progress doesn’t come from tackling everything perfectly. It comes from starting, and doing it gently, consistently, and self-compassionately.
Even one tiny step is a step forward. If you’re ready to take that step, check out Advisers Give Back to get matched with a professional financial planner at no cost, and fight avoidance with an adviser by your side!
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